The Transition Man
Are you determined to reach your goal? Do you really believe you can
achieve what you set out to accomplish? With determination and belief,
you too can make the same choice to turn a failed situation into a
winning one. How? By choosing to adapt a positive perspective and
engage in edifying self-talk. Here are four opportunities to stay
motivated in the midst of failure:
"The Only Direction is UP” or “It Can't Get Any Worse"
Feel like you've hit rock bottom? Don't beat up on yourself too badly.
To experience disappointment, heartbreak, embarrassment and/or
self-doubt is to be human. However, to wallow in this state for too
long is downright destructive. Tell yourself that it doesn't get much
worse than this point of failure and let yourself know that the only
place left to go is "upward." Use the failure as motivation to start
climbing back up. When you do this, you will see that instead of
running from failure you will look it in the eye and overcome it.
"I Have a Chance to Do Better Next Time"
As long as you're breathing, there's always room for improvement.
Choose to use your failure as motivation to do better the next time
around. When you remember your goal and envision reaching it, you will
be super-charged to find ways to develop yourself. For example, if you
need to do better in school, make (and follow) a consistent study
schedule. If you are intent on a promotion at work, take classes to
increase your skill-set. No matter what the failed task consists of,
you can use it to motivate yourself to get more done.
"Hmmm, I May Need to Change Direction"
Does it seem like you've come to a roadblock? Then the solution may
just be detouring and moving toward your goal in a different way. When
something does not work out as planned, you need to re-evaluate the
route you are taking. So review the situation, re-group and get on a
track "around" that roadblock. The track may be a different one, but it
may also be a more successful one.
"This is Not the End of the Line"
Know this: everyone fails from time to time but failure is not the end
of the line unless you allow it to be. You blundered, you tried, you
failed and it hurts. Allow yourself time to grieve it but then let it
go so that you can get back to the business of reaching your intended
goal. Your goal IS your motivation. Remind yourself that the only
positive option is to seek ways to turn the situation around. Then tell
yourself that in the morning, you will begin again!