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The Making of a Cowboy Part 1 of 2
- By Anthony Vultaggio
- Published 07/3/2008
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Anthony Vultaggio
Anthony Vultaggio is the author of, "Who Said That and Why You Should Care". He's the founder and president of Life Strategies Business Consulting, founding board member for SEAN (Stop Elder Abuse Now), marketing consultant for the RightDentalGroup.com dentists, and a sought-after speaker on healthcare marketing and success strategies.
“Growing up I loved football and horses. I knew from the first time I rode a horse at a summer camp that after my football days were done I was going to be a cowboy.”
It’s a line you might expect to hear from a young man growing up in a rural part of the country. But Hal Coker’s upbringing was about as far from country living as you can get. Born the son of a Southern Baptist minister, Hal grew up in suburban San Francisco.
“Most people thought it was just kid talk. You know, one week I’m a fireman, another I’m a cowboy,” says Hal. “But that wasn’t the case for me. Once the dream took root it grew.”
Not growing up around horses made it difficult to get the experiences he craved but Hal never let that stop him.
“I never lived on a farm or ranch. I lived in a cul-de-sac with a paved driveway,” he says from beneath the brim of a 10-gallon hat. “But dreams have a funny way of coming to be if you nurture them for long enough.”
Despite having virtually no experience with horses in his early years, Hal has become one of the best horse trainers in the country. While you won’t hear him boasting about his abilities he does admit that people from all over the United States bring him horses to train.
“I just work with the nature of each horse,” says Hal. “They’re not so different than people. The trick is to understand how they think and communicate before you try to train them. If you can get into their mind and make them feel safe then you can train them to accept you. If the horse accepts you, it will respond confidently to your requests. That’s when it gets fun.”
So how did a California suburbanite end up as a sought-after horse trainer on a ranch in Arizona?
“I blew out my knee in college football when I was twenty,” says Hal. “True to my word I shifted to my dream of becoming a cowboy.”
He was turned down by countless ranches and told by other cowboys that they couldn’t take him on because he had no experience.
“Riding ponies at my childhood summer camp didn’t qualify in their eyes,” says Hal laughing. “But I didn’t let that stop me. I tried ranch after ranch. I made them all tell me no.”
After countless attempts, he decided to try a different tact.
“I figured they couldn’t say no to free labor so I volunteered,” he says. “I had a buddy from high school, his name is Ron Slocum, his dad and uncle ran two major fairgrounds in California. They let me just hang around and help. It gave me a great start and the experience I needed to get the ranches to take me seriously.”
His first break came from Chaps Horse Ranch, which is located off of Highway One in the Central Coast of California. It started off as an unpaid position.
“It was a job, sorta,” he says. “I did every menial task they asked to the very best of my ability. I know it sounds silly but if they asked me to pull out nails from wood, I’d shut-up and do it like it was the greatest job in the world.”
His diligence paid off. They quickly recognized his passion for horses and his commitment to becoming a cowboy.
“That’s when it all changed,” he says. “They gave me a paid position and helped me to get more experience. Then they did something that made my career: they paid my entry fee to Buck Brannaman’s clinic in Watsonville. There I got to hang around some of the top cowboys in the country. I kept quiet and listened and learned.”
What did that pivotal moment do for his career? What life lessons has he learned? Watch this space for more of Hal Coker's story.
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The Making of a Cowboy Part 1 of 2
11 Responses to "The Making of a Cowboy Part 1 of 2" 
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said this on 03 Jul 2008 6:25:31 PM CST
Doesn't matter where you're from or how you're raised ... Horses are in your blood.
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said this on 03 Jul 2008 8:01:34 PM CST
Looking forward to following the story.... dedication and hard work always pays off.....follow that dream. Waiting for Part 2.
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said this on 05 Jul 2008 5:46:06 AM CST
Almost a lost art! Great article and looking forward to part 2.
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said this on 05 Jul 2008 2:31:27 PM CST
The filly you see Hal working with, is mine.
Before finding him, I was doing all the wrong things. Not only does he train the horse, but he educates the owner and rider as well. I truely don't know what I would have done without his guideness. Farriers and vets told me to "get rid of her", she was crazy and I was going to get hurt. Beinig in my 60's I didn't need that, but luckily a friend told me about Hal. He has changed my life. Mariah and I are now bonded, and she knows that I am the alpha mare not her. Love, understanding and a willingness to work with your horse, in the correct way is the key. Thank you Hal for what you have done for the two of us. Andrea May |
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said this on 06 Jul 2008 11:42:13 AM CST
One more example of doing what you love with passion.
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said this on 06 Jul 2008 2:14:08 PM CST
Hal truly is a superior horseman. Without his guidance and patience, I never would have had the courage get get back on my gelding after being thrown and getting injured. I met him through a friend and he has not only worked wonders for my horse but for me also. Now I have a wonderful relationship with my horses and would'nt even think about getting rid of that 'crazy' horse that everyone else said would kill me. He is an outstanding horseman and true friend. Thank you, Hal.
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said this on 06 Jul 2008 7:04:16 PM CST
Hal started working with me and my gaited horses 10 years ago . He took a mare I got out of Kentucky , that was supposed to be trained , that scared me to death and turned her around . I was hanging on for dear life that day we swept into the ranch yard and I jumped off vowing to sell her right away , too much horse for me . Someone said ask That man over there with the handlebar moustash . He could maybe help . That was the beginning . I even talked Hal into showing her in English classes as well as western at the shows and she won all the time . The mare was owned by a moonshiner in Kentucky and had very bad manners before Hal turned her around . My gelding , a Kentucky Mountain Saddle horse was started from the beginning as a colt by Hal and you can even rope off of him . He comes running when he sees Hal . Wonderful young man and dedicated to what he does . His second Mom
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said this on 07 Jul 2008 4:58:09 PM CST
Back in '03-'04 Hal helped me with a colt I thought I had started pretty good until he began to rear up. Hal, thankfully, restarted my colt the right way. I asked Hal to help me with my other horses and he did. Then Hal disapeared for about three years owing me lessons. I knew he had a good reason so I let it go. One day in Dec. '07 while out riding, there was Hal. Honest and true he said, "I owe you and would like to repay." What a God send. See, I got this Hancock colt that I paid an Oklahoma trainer to start. All they did was take my money and wreck my horse. The horse, Blacknight, was so scared of people, he would buck blind foaming at the mouth. My husband told me to get rid of him! I couldn't send him to a life of hell, so I was just going to make him a pet. God love Hal! He came back just at the right time. Hal is currently educating Blacknight and myself. Hal takes his work personal, he has loosened up Blacknight's feet and is commited to Blacknight becoming everything he can be. I feel blessed to have Hal working with me and my horses.
Thank you, Hal |
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said this on 07 Jul 2008 10:32:18 PM CST
What a wonderful story. Reminds me of the 'Horse Whisperer'. Looking forward to part II.
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said this on 12 Jul 2008 10:43:48 AM CST
This story tells of Hal and how his dream of being a Cowboy came true. Behind the handlebar mustach and 10 gallon hat is a great man... and a best friend. I met Hal our freshman year and at first glance we were the most unlikly of friends. He was there for me threw my father passing and countless other hard roads in life. I would like to think I was there for him threw his bumpy trails. About 25 years latter, we still keep in touch monthly and I always look forward to his visits back home. He is a Cowboy...But most important to me, he is as close as any brother.
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said this on 14 Jul 2008 7:08:34 PM CST
Nothing replaces plain old fashioned hard-headedness
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